Hello Silence My Old Friend


Yes, I continue to think about silence.  My environment is my classroom and I am listening.

Silence is an important tool for leaders.  For introverts such as myself, silence comes more naturally.  For extroverts silence can be even more powerful as it can be perceived as unexpected.

An old school teacher trick … if children are speaking out of turn in the classroom, move to the center of the room, stand still and remain silent.  The children generally will notice and stop speaking.

This works in the workplace too – while remaining attentive, stand in the meeting and remain silent as the team talks over each other.  It helps to have an open center as I wrote in this blog entry, Step into the Circle (read here). Count to 10 (in your head of course) and silence will return.

The opposite works too.  The meeting room is quiet.  You ask the team a question.  The room remains quiet.  You are tempted to speak up and answer your own question.  Stop.  Do not speak.  Silence is your best tool.  It is an old workshop trainer trick of mine … someone will speak.

silence-speaksSilence, in a way of thinking, is standing still.  All the better to sense movement around you. Only by standing still and remaining silent do you gauge the movement, verbal and otherwise, around you.  Choose your time to speak … to energize, and move things forward.
Silence both fascinates and is uncomfortable for People.   A leader knows how to use silence, an old friend indeed.

To read more on silence for the leader, see this very good article, The Leadership Gifts of Keeping Your Mouth Shut.

3 thoughts on “Hello Silence My Old Friend

Add yours

  1. Hi, Neat post. There is an issue along with your web site in web explorer, may check this?

    IE still is the market leader and a big section of folks
    will omit your fantastic writing due to this problem.

  2. I have been exploring for a little bit for any high quality articles or blog posts in this
    sort of space . Exploring in Yahoo I eventually stumbled upon this site.
    Reading this info So i’m satisfied to exhibit that I’ve a very just right uncanny
    feeling I came upon exactly what I needed. I most without a doubt
    will make sure to do not put out of your mind this web site and
    provides it a look regularly.

What do you think?

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s

Website Built with WordPress.com.

Up ↑

%d bloggers like this: